Friday, April 11, 2014
She's not fat, she's fluffy
This story may not be politically
correct but it is true. He was only 40 when he was told that
there was no cure, and he was worried about his mom, because his
older brother had died a few months earlier and his dad was
terminally ill. He told her that he would go to a hospice residence
because he refused to burden her with his care. But, he told her,
don't write me off just yet. I intend to live as long as I can, and
it's not over until the fat lady sings. At our hospice residence,
he was an interesting guy, and the staff got to know him, and of his love
for music and books. He and his mom visited together every day and
they laughed about his “fat lady plan” a lot, with that grim laughter that sometimes comes with terminal illness. In fact, they
decided that at his funeral, when the day came, she would play “His
eye is on the sparrow” by a particular favorite singer, whom they
thought of as “the fat lady.” One night, as he was growing
weaker, he asked his mom if she thought it could be almost time for
him to go and she told him yes, she loved him and would miss him, but she understood and would be okay.
His mom left for a little bit and when she came back, one of the
aides told her that she didn't know why, but she had felt led, almost
compelled, to stop by his room and sing “The eye is on the sparrow”
for him. He went to sleep then and never woke up. And yes, the
aide who came in to sing . . . . well, not one of us would have said so, but she would have readily admitted
that she pretty much fit the description.
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1 comment:
OMG - make me cry why don't you? I gotta go get a tissue. xo
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